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What do I do if I find myself bullying bullies?

Apr 11, 2013 8:40am

I have a knee-jerk reaction to aggressive, bullying behavior, which is to intimidate the child in return to defend the other child, perhaps even humiliating them. It is very counter-productive and I find I have many of the same lessons to learn as the bullies around self-control, even though I feel 'justified' at the time. I'm looking for more effective ways to engage with this scenario.

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  • Pre K-2
  • Class Culture

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    • Apr 20, 2013 12:24pm

      I have found that this works for me as an "in the moment" tactic- very calmly, ask the student to go stand outside the door for a moment (with the door open so you can see them if you have no windows). When you have the rest of the class settled and working, go outside and address them. This sends the message that it's not ok, while allowing you to preserve the dignity of that child.

      • Apr 13, 2013 10:03am

        very kind of you to help us . Well I am an inspector of English from Algeria and I am training 141 teachers actually in my area , the problem is that many of them don't use technology in their classrooms so they can't see and hear What I am doing so I want you if you can send me printed documents pdf or word ones so that I can supply them with AND MANY THANKS AGAIN.